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It is 2014, and the very fact that it is (sadly) a radical and subversive act for the face of Capt. America to be that of a black man shows us how little we have, in fact, progressed in the last 50 years and how very important it is that this is happening.

I don’t care that it’ll get changed around in 18 months. Show me one fucking thing Marvel has done in the last 30 years that stayed permanent. Uncle Ben does not actually count.

I don’t care if they’ve done shit like this before. Comics need to be cyclical because the stories they tell need to be constantly re-absorbed by new generations.

I don’t care if you think your enjoyment of comics is more important than a new generation of the most disenfranchised kids in our country getting solid visual proof that someone *does* think they can be the face of America.

I don’t care if you think it needs to be better written to justify the change. Yes, there are examples of Hugo-level writing in the comics medium, but the overwhelming bulk of comics writing is and mostly always has been average at best, to the point where storylines that rise to the level of “good” get hailed as the second coming.

Pointing out a rouster of 2nd tier minority characters (however well or poorly written they have been) only underscores the problem. You show kids they they can only be the hero’s pal, only the sidekick, only the hero of another story that happens offscreen or in a title that you’ll never have access to or in cannon so obscure that it might as well have not actually happened and you are telling them that they will never be a main character, period. This has a real actual and negative effect in how kids view themselves and their place in the world and it is something we can actually change!

Just because you don’t get it, just because it doesn’t affect you, just because you are comfortable with the way things are or have been, does not mean that this is the way things should always be. This shit is changing and I’m sorry but the print comics are not going to be your arcadia for the pure simple reason that the aging white fanboy demographic does not have the spending power to equal the metric fuckton of money that comes in though movies and merchandising.

And finally, it’s not just Cap, and it’s not just Thor. It’s Miles Moralez as Spider Man. It’s Kamala Khan as Ms. Marvel. Fuck, it’s about Quvenzhané Wallis as Little Orphan Annie. It’s about showing kids who see faces like their own branded constantly as criminals and victims and bodies and statistics and future inmates and future terrorists that they can be… not just *a* hero, not just the “minority” hero , but THE hero. The hero that everyone looks up to, the hero they have forever and always been told is not for them. The hero that everyone recognizes at halloween. The hero that’s up on the movie screen and in the toy store. The hero that even your grandma recognizes. The hero that everyone wants to be.

That’s the important shit. Not this Kevin Smith/Comic Book Guy silliness.

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every time anyone characterises a male character who has canonically shown romantic interest in women as “gay 100% homosexual all about the dudes who likes girls ew! he’s definitely only into cisgender men!!!” i feel another strand of my hair turn to dragonscale

soon the transformation will be complete and the monster will emerge. the bi-wilderbeast. the levia-pan. the polygon

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Imma need for stucky writers to stop putting samsteve in the tags if it’s only a background pairing.

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Eggs Benedict is pretty easy - the hardest things are learning how to not mess up poaching an egg (or cheating & coddling the egg instead) and not splitting the sauce (or cheating and using store bought). I love Eggs Benedict, but they've been spoiled for me a bit by the pervading media presence of Humperdinck Bumblesnatch.
zarabithia zarabithia Said:

I can actually make an awesome poached egg! its’ the sauce and everything else that looks super complicated.

… His face does kind of resemble a well poached egg just as you are pressing the fork into it, right before it bursts. 


"The “strong” in “strong female character” doesn’t—or shouldn’t, anyway—mean “strong” in a physical or emotional sense. A strong female character is one who’s strongly written, with her own personality, agency, motivations, fears, and goals, whatever those happen to be. Because female characters, like all characters, should be written as complex human beings." (x)

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Protect little black boys at all costs

The notes on this are dissapointing.

Even with the knowledge that notes do nothing for the actual protection of black boys, it strikes as uncomfortable when compared to similar posts.

Shit, protect the big ones too.

But isn’t that always the way when folk plot to steal power? The innocent get hurt.
Eleni Cooper, in Lioness Rampant by Tamora Pierce

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No, Because they are nobles in revolution-era France and will be guillotined. 

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This is the extended clip of the NYPD and EMS after they’ve murdered this man.  After they’ve realized they’ve killed this man, they pretend as if he’s still alive.  He’s dead on the sidewalk!!  That’s why the EMS didn’t bother to attempt to resuscitate him.  They did nothing to attempt to revive him. He was still in handcuffs and all they did was remove his phone and some cigarettes from his pockets, then slammed his LIFELESS BODY onto a stretcher.  THEY MURDERED THIS MAN!!

  1. If you or I were ever to be caught on camera, in the plain view of day light, committing a crime there would be no need for an INVESTIGATION (open and shut case).  But time and time again, this is the tactic that the NYPD and other terrorist groups across the U.S. uses.  They see a plain video of their officers committing a crime and they “INVESTIGATE” it for years…and as time passes WE FORGET until the next time…WELL YOU BETTER START DEVELOPING A LONG MEMORY BECAUSE THE INCURSION IS COMING FOR YOU AND YOURS IF WE DON’T STOP THESE PEOPLE FROM KILLING US.

Officer DANIEL PANTALEO should be charged with MANSLAUGHTER in the second degree.

  1. MANSLAUGHTER in the 2nd Degree:  According to New York Penal Code section 125.15 (1), a person is guilty of manslaughter in the second degree when he RECKLESSLY CAUSES THE DEATH OF ANOTHER PERSON.
  2. According to NY Penal Code section 15.05(3), RECKLESSNESS is defined as follows: A person acts recklessly with respect to a result or to a circumstance described by a statute defining an offense when he is AWARE of and CONSCIOUSLY DISREGARDS a SUBSTANTIAL and UNJUSTIFIABLE RISK that such result will occur or that such circumstance exists.  The risk must be of such nature and degree that disregard thereof constitutes a GROSS DEVIATION FROM THE STANDARD OF CONDUCT THAT A REASONABLE PERSON WOULD OBSERVE IN THE SITUATION.
  3. Since 1993, the NYPD has expressly banned all applications of police choke-holds because numerous people have died in police custody as a result of these choke-holds!!!  The RULE AGAINST POLICE CHOKE-HOLDS CLEARLY STATES: “Members of the NYPD will not use chokeholds.”  The NYPD patrol guide defines a choke-hold as follows: “A chokehold shall include, but is not limited to, ANY PRESSURE TO THE THROAT OR WINDPIPE WHICH MAY PREVENT OR HINDER BREATHING TO REDUCE INTAKES OF AIR.”
  4. Officer DANIEL PANTALEO is an 8-year veteran of the NYPD.  He is or should be aware of the NYPD rule against choke-holds.  He is or should be aware that placing someone in a choke-hold is therefore reckless (as defined above).  Placing ERIC GARNER in a chokehold was reckless because it’s a gross deviation from the explicit rules of the NYPD against using choke-holds.  DANIEL PANTALEO applied a choke-hold because he clearly applied pressure to ERIC GARNER’S neck (see video).  This hindered the intake of air because you can clearly hear ERIC GARNER screaming “I can’t breathe” (see video). 

DANIEL PANTALEO could be charged with second degree MURDER.

  1. NY Penal code section 125.25 (2) states: “A person is guilty of murder in the second degree when under circumstances envincing a DEPRAVED indifference to human life, he RECKLESSLY engages in conduct which creates a GRAVE RISK OF DEATH to another person, and thereby causes the death of another person.”
  2. DANIEL PANTALEO, as evidenced by other claims of police misconduct and excessive force has demonstrated a history of depraved indifference to human life.  His conduct here is also RECKLESS as outlined above.  And his reckless conduct, while demonstrating a depraved indifference to human life caused the death of ERIC GARNER.

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I must write to thank you for the darling piece of fiction that you wrote based on my prompt. It had everything I could have dreamed of and more; from the belt buckle to unprompted Rikki & Kate, to “arrogant" to Bon Jovi & Poison.

I simply loved every moment of it, so much so that when I reached the cut I found myself stopping, looking up and saying “my gosh, this is perfection”.

Just like this:


:) I’m so glad you enjoyed it! Kate kind of hijacked it away from Anya and Jessica, which is something I guess “arrogant” people do lol.


Birthday pizza, at zarabithia's suggestion.

Because it is birthday pizza, it contains NO CALORIES.




It looks delicious. NOM NOM. So much more worthy of choking on than a potato.


seeing your NOTP (that you hate) on your dash, but understanding that it’s their opinion and ur not a hater


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Okay, I have more headcanons to get to in the inbox, but I am exhausted, so I will have to get to them tomorrow. 

Thanks for playing!