Ancient moon priestesses were called virgins. ‘Virgin’ meant not married, not belong to a man - a woman who was ‘one-in-herself’. The very word derives from a Latin root meaning strength, force, skill; and was later applied to men: virle. Ishtar, Diana, Astarte, Isis were all all called virgin, which did not refer to sexual chasity, but sexual independence. And all great culture heroes of the past…, mythic or historic, were said to be born of virgin mothers: Marduk, Gilgamesh, Buddha, Osiris, Dionysus, Genghis Khan, Jesus - they were all affirmed as sons of the Great Mother, of the Original One, their worldly power deriving from her. When the Hebrews used the word, and in the original Aramatic, it meant ‘maiden’ or ‘young woman’, with no connotations to sexual chasity. But later Christian translators could not conceive of the ‘Virgin Mary’ as a woman of independent sexuality, needless to say; they distorted the meaning into sexually pure, chaste, never touched. When Joan of Arc, with her witch coven associations, was called La Pucelle - ‘the Maiden,’ ‘the Virgin’ - the word retained some of its original pagan sense of a strong and independent woman. The Moon Goddess was worshipped in orgiastic rites, being the divinity of matriarchal women free to take as many lovers as they choose. Women could ‘surrender’ themselves to the Goddess by making love to a stranger in her temple.
Monica Sjoo and Barbara Mor, The Great Cosmic Mother - Rediscovering the Religion of the Earth (via munstersandghosts)
I have removed so many people from my flist for showing their asses about Kori and Selina’s Sexual Agency This Week

Each time I do, I turn to my girlfriend and say “Gee, do you want to have some dirty, consensual sex that will glorify the patriarchy and serve only to further the male gaze?”

She keeps reminding me that it apparently only works if the woman has a sexual preference for cock, so idk, maybe we should start using strap-ons.

I mean, it would be so sad if my consensual sexual activities didn’t appropriately glorify the  partriarchy and turn what would othewise be my awesome into victimhood.

And while that was snarky bitterness, it is true that I have lost a lot of respect for people I otherwise did respect over this issue.